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Launching first in the Bay Area

Connection, on your terms.

Fellowway is intentional dating for people ready to move past endless swiping and hookup-first culture. Inclusive, LGBTQ+-welcoming, and made for real connection.

A more deliberate way to meet

Less game. More agency.

You decide who you discover, whose full profile you spend time with, and when a connection begins. Fellowway is designed to make intent visible without taking control away from you.

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Discover with purpose

Browse members and profiles with enough context to decide whether a conversation feels worth starting.

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Connect by choice

Send or receive a connection request. No forced momentum, no assumption that access is owed.

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Keep your boundaries

Block and report controls support the core promise: connection stays on your terms.

Sober and sober-curious welcome

A date doesn’t have to revolve around drinks.

Fellowway is being built with the sober and sobriety community in mind—not tucked away as an afterthought. Coffee walks, museum afternoons, neighborhood food, a view across the Bay. The point is the person.

Identity without explanationA space where not drinking can simply be part of who you are.
Intent over performanceMeet around shared interests and genuine conversation—not a nightlife script.
Everyone belongsSober, sober-curious, or simply someone who prefers dates that aren’t centered on alcohol.

Start where community is real

Help set the tone from day one.

Founding members won’t be joining just another national feed. You’ll be part of Fellowway’s first local community in the San Francisco Bay Area—people showing up early for a more intentional kind of dating.

Join the waitlist now and you’ll be among the first invited when Bay Area access begins.

Good to know

Questions, answered.

When does Fellowway launch?

A launch date hasn’t been announced yet. Fellowway is launching first in the San Francisco Bay Area, and waitlist members will hear when early access opens.

Will it be on iOS and Android?

Fellowway is launching on iOS. Waitlist members will be the first to know when it expands to additional platforms.

Is Fellowway free?

Joining the waitlist is free. App pricing hasn’t been announced yet, so waitlist members will receive details before launch.

How is my email used?

Your email is sent to Fog & Iron Labs through FormSubmit and is used for Fellowway waitlist and launch updates. Don’t include sensitive information in the signup field.

Is Fellowway only for sober people?

No. Fellowway is inclusive of sober and sober-curious people, and of anyone who wants dating to feel more intentional and less centered on nightlife.

Ready for connection that feels like yours?

Join the waitlist